There’s a reason many ancient teachings are bubbling up to the surface.It is time. To remember wisdom & levels of awareness we’ve yet to tap into in this time of human progression. Like divine breadcrumbs, we feel a pull. We’re called.

Doing polarity work without a solid intimate connection is like putting tomato sauce on a pizza without base
Doing polarity work without having a natural magnetic attraction from the beginning is like putting toppings on a pizza without a base
It doesn’t work

As feminine oracles, we must trust the ripples of our truth. To not shrivel and close when we are not instantly met. When expressed from a place of love and surrender, not manipulation or agenda, energetically, it comes back to us. We must learn to let go of control of how and when that will be.

Anything you look to find outside of yourself, will never manifest. You are everything already.

The union of King & Queen is merged firstly within our own being. From this inner union, we magnetise the outer with a similar integration of this masculine & feminine pole. This does not mean we’re perfect! It means we’ve come to a reasonable state of inner safety & expression.

Being radically receptive is not a weakness: it's our instinctual need to be filled, nourishes our soul-essence and allows our deepest yearning to be met. The feminine in us is naturally receptive. Under it lies a deep yearning to be guided, to open, to trust. The masculine in us is naturally penetrative. Under it lies a deep desire to lead, to protect, to be trusted.

One of my ex-partners had an amazing capability to get exactly what he wanted. His dreams were BIG, his ambition broad and his self-confidence wide. When we met, he said: ‘You don’t know it yet, but you’re my girl’ and he waited two years till I was his.

What if, for a moment, we take away the history and see our partner with new eyes?
What if, every day, we’d look into our beloved’s eyes and see the divine reflected back at us?
God & Goddess
Shiva & Shakti incarnate?

The Queen archetype has been an great guide for me – & all of the women I work with. Especially when we feel into how she feels in comparison to The Princess. It gives off just another fragrance, a more delicate depth, than the Nice Girl vs Woman archetype.

When we begin to return to our feminine essence our emotions begin to flow again, old aches un-numb & we become more expressive. & this is wonderful! Yet, that is only the first stage - & immature version of feminine expression.

Most people believe romantic love is the highest love

It is not

Believing romantic love is the highest love causes illusion, disempowerment & pain

Honouring the wisdom of your deepest longings are an essential part of sacred feminine practice. Your longings are the portals, the guiding way. Your longings are sacred. Think about it. Allowing yourself to yearn, to desire, to long is so freeing. Like an embodied prayer to the Universe. Like a call from your soul.
What’s the difference between neediness and longing?

The Maiden archetype in her power is our innocent, playful, spontaneous, wondrous, fun nature. What fantastic qualities!

Yet, there’s another, disempowered, side to the Maiden; the ‘nice girl’ archetype.

I was introduced by a colleague who said; ‘This is Sarah, she’s an artist, model, guide and shamanista..’
I adjusted her, saying I’m on the Shamanic path, I’m not a shaman.

At the end of the journey, the right side of my body was so sore and tense, I was curled up and could hardly move.

The male shaman (a spaceholder who’s a friend as well) sat next to me and slowly helped me uncurl my body.
He then started massaging me. Slowly and kindly.
All I could do was cry. Big tears rolling down my cheeks.

Many women, when entering the field of polarity & masculine & feminine dynamics, re-discover their longing to – at times - surrender to the masculine lead in relationships.
To be claimed & lead, to trust & be held.

Those pivotal moments in your life, often ones that were extremely impactful, be it painful or blissful, carry medicine in them. These anchor points shaped you, moved you, re-arranged and often strengthened you. They’ve made you who you are.

There is a part of me that is daring and absolutely on-stoppable There is another part that is shy and pulled back into her own world
I’ve always been like that
Bravely insecure
Fiercely sensitive

As I look at our wealthy Western world, I find myself wondering; what does it take to move us into action? Into revolution? Has comfort become King and change the enemy? Are we so scared for push-back, we’ve estranged ourselves from standing for Love, for Unity, for Freedom?

A stubborn default mechanism lies deeply rooted in the masculine’s toolbox.
It gives him a feeling of winning, of control, of solution, of being needed. Of peace. Of care even.
It is the tendency to fix the feminine when she’s in her storms