Do you dare to be radically receptive?
Being radically receptive is not a weakness: it's our instinctual need to be filled, nourishes our soul-essence and allows our deepest yearning to be met.
The feminine in us is naturally receptive. Under it lies a deep yearning to be guided, to open, to trust. The masculine in us is naturally penetrative. Under it lies a deep desire to lead, to protect, to be trusted.
This is especially true in romantic relationships, but also comes out in other areas of our life.
‘Can you honor your longing for him through your body, heart and womb, without the ‘hook’? Without demand? Without suppression or shame?’
This yearning to be filled, claimed, devoured does not reveal itself from a place of neediness but from honouring the essence of her soul.It's a core-longing that - when fully accepted and expressed through her heart, womb and body - not only brings the feminine back to herself, is also wildly attractive to the masculine pole.
This desire pulses forth from an inner union of King and Queen. For it is through this inner wholeness, that we can surrender without collapsing, attracting our external counterpart from our true feminine power. Bravely, powerfully, wildly receptive.
Can you see
your desires are what draws his consciousness into you, not your complaints?
Your invitation what pours his presence towards you, not your critique?
Your revealing what magnetises his protection of you, not your demanding?
The masculine is designed to respond to your vulnerability, to your invitation,
to your ache for him. Nothing evokes him more to provide, penetrate, protect
than your softness and revealing of your need and yearning for him. This is his fuel, his guidance, his nectar for life
Tell me..
if you are pushing, grasping, leaning in, controlling, demanding to get your needs met, how can he fill the space? If you are justifying your closure by his imperfections, how can he lead your oracle?
She opens to the man she feels has the depth to hold her flames. For if he desires her surrender, the question is: ‘What into?’ Deeply, wholly, fully.
When you trust him with such fullness, your untamed, innocent, mystical feminine essence reveals herself. There will be no other way. Insatiable, yet never grasping. All insecurities, armouring, separation, transmuting into sea of holy love.
I get it
I get that being radically receptive makes you feel uncomfortable, unsafe.
That the word surrender - submission even - makes your face shrivel up.
That living from your deepest longing feels naked, a bit extra.
This aching, susceptible way of being would’ve made me squirm some yrs ago.
My devotion is to the feminine path. I learn new layers of her wisdom, power & rising every time. When I know in my heart I have touched truth, I must follow.
Our deepest yearning takes us back to the essence of our soul - of who we are & why we’re here. This is much deeper than a superficial need or demand. Whenever there’s demand, it’s attached to a childhood pain & has little to nothing to do with embodying feminine longing.
In life, this comes out as our purpose or how we want to share our love with the world. In romantic love, as feminine beings, this is in relation to the masculine. & vice versa. We’re whole onto ourselves, yet we need one another to elevate.
This deep ache towards the masculine is often felt as a yearning to be claimed, devoured, held with depth, stroked back to oneness, melt into his frame.
Our deepest longing is - as you can feel - receptive. Recognizing & owning it is like a vulnerable homecoming you cannot come back from.
‘If this is our deepest soul-hunger, how can we be a living prayer to attract this? How can we soften our body to invite this kind of love?’
It does not mean you’ll surrender to anyone. You’ll open from your own inner union, holding yourself while gifting your fullness. This way, we open without losing our core. A delicate dance..
It means you understand the sacredness of your feminine essence, to be clear in your core longing & meticulous to whom you’ll gift yourself to.
You may be wondering where my talk about the raw, primal, dark Jaguar-like feminine has gone.
Trust me..
There is a place for her
She expresses her fierceness through a radically vulnerable heart
She reveals her sexual textures through a safe & open womb, into the void of the dark mother
She responds to her man’s consciousness through her hisses & moans
She is tapped into the mystical force of creation & chooses her surrender wisely
Where is your deepest longing taking you?