One of the patterns between the masculine & feminine is my client (mostly the more feminine pole) being annoyed with the more masculine pole because he’s not doing as he says, he’s being reactive to her emotional expression or he’s abdicating leadership/warrior vibes. Where does this annoyance stem from?

There is a deep false believe in our society that we are only worthy is we’re doing, doing, doing! Moving, moving, moving! Giving, Giving, Giving!

Living in alignment with pleasure and our longings isn’t an option for a feminine being, it’s an essential. It’s a must.

The masculine leads by structure/direction. The feminine leads by revealing the truth of her heart.
Revealing the truth of your heart in any given moment is the core of feminine practise.

I love working with archetypes. They hold patterns of energy that reside in the greater subconscious and eventually are part of all of us. Especially the dark feminine archetypes have been suppressed, often numbed and dismissed into tucked away corners of our being.

There is a faulty assumption that people who practise Tantra have a lot of sex with lots of different people. There may be some who do (power to you!), but my experience is the opposite. Why? Because when you are expanding your sexual energy, your power isn’t for everybody to hold.

One of the main things that felt freeing, was to let go of the idea of only having sex when you feel amazing and like a blazing sexy goddess, but to reveal the truth of who you are, exactly in the moment, and move from there.

There are three kinds of communication:
Unconscious
Conscious
Sacred

When we get knocked out of centre when someone shares a perspective we don’t agree with or something that they say, that is well intended triggers us, it is because it touches a trauma in us that we haven’t healed yet.

This one of the questions I receive most. How do I incorporate my feminine with my masculine job? Here we go:

We often attract partners that can teach us something, that can take us somewhere we can’t all the way take ourselves; ecstasy, depth, butterflies! BUT, what we may not recognize is that we choose partners that aren’t just our soulmates, they are also our wound-mates..

What keeps coming back when working with women who are stepping into their feminine is this: the most beautiful and most challenging about the process is learning to speak their truth From and Through their body.

Toxic masculinity is about winning, taking, dominating. A healthy masculine unifies, heals and frees. The kind of freedom that liberates souls, hearts and minds.

Isn’t it amazing how long we date people, how often we show up in relationship with a dream, a dynamic that’s not actually true?

Ask yourself not:
‘What would I do?’
Ask yourself:
‘What would love do?’
‘What would courage do?’

We all want to be better lovers & listener. This post expands on how to create structure for your partner to transform frustration into intimacy, anger into appreciation – even turn on. Who wouldn’t want that?

Warning; the following text may trigger you.
I know it did when I explained my super-feminist mum what my teacher had taught me, but here we go:

A couple of days ago, I got trauma-triggered.
I was in a seemingly innocent discussion when my entire front body closed, my voice choked up, my mind went blank and I had to breathe deeply to stay centred.

I have always been a sensual girl. I was interested in boys and love from as far as can remember.

If we want to take part in the rising of the feminine, we also have to take part in the rising of the masculine.