Man can fix many things, but not a woman

A stubborn default mechanism lies deeply rooted in the masculine’s toolbox.
It gives him a feeling of winning, of control, of solution, of being needed. Of peace. Of care even.
It is the tendency to fix the feminine when she’s in her storms.

Even though this is understandable!
A natural way for him
It is not what she wants

The feminine doesn’t want to be fixed
Not even to be understood
She wants to be felt
Fully, deeply, wholly

Not with his mind
But with his heart

Only when the full spectrum of her feeling world has been welcomed in
With safe and deep presence
She relaxes

As long as she isn’t received fully
She will rebel
She will test
She will close

And this takes nervous system practice!
It takes integration of his own wild feminine heart!
To hold the feminine, not by containing her, but by giving her space and watching her divine glory unfold.

She doesn’t want to be fixed
She wants to be given trust to come back to her own Oracle within to answer to her

She wants him to recognize the power of her own Oracle of intuition
of heart
of womb

Not trusting her energy, her love to be expressed in any way it has to, hurts her
Just like her not trusting your leadership and depth would hurt him

Men can fix many things
But not a woman


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